Songwriter Eclectic™

こんにちは、ソーニャです。私のページへようこそ！

私のコミュニケーションスタイルは「直接的」であり、日本の文化で一般的に見られるスタイルとは異なるかもしれません。私は常に明確で直接的な意図を持ってコミュニケーションを取っていますが、読者の方によっては異なる印象を受ける場合もあると思います。心を込めて読んでいただけると嬉しいです。正直に話すことを大切にしており、私の直接的な表現がその精神で理解されれば幸いです。

(ᵔ◡ᵔ) ありがとうございます。

Hello, I'm Sonya. Welcome to my page!

My communication style is “direct,” which may differ from what's commonly seen in Japanese culture. I always communicate with clear, direct intent, though some readers might perceive it differently. I'd be delighted if you read with an open heart. I value speaking honestly, and I hope my direct expressions are understood in that spirit. (ᵔ◡ᵔ)Thank you.

I am Songwriter Eclectic™ because my love of music keeps my songwriting style fluid, eclectic.

"I got music on my mind, It's like an affliction, I hear melodies in my head, It's like my addiction

Music... it makes the world go round, My style is eclectic... come hear my sound."

View my thoughts and life below in no particular order. Check back for updates :)

I am a Native American Indian songwriter living in Minnesota (u.s.) with my young adult daughter and our cat, Yuki.

We live on a small, modest property with a little over a quarter acre that I purchased for us. (See Yuki’s photo on this page 😼). I am a born and raised Brooklynite, (Bushwick, BK) NYC🗽 to be exact. See a throwback photo of me when I lived in NYC... and more about me, below.

FATE 運命: I believe that I am fated with the gift of songwriting, and I will do my best with it. There is a saying: "Everything is not up to man, but is already predetermined by fate/heaven." Over the years, I’ve grown to strongly believe in the concept of fate. Because of this belief, I don’t go against it...even when others think it's silly superstition. I see it as a form of spiritual wisdom. Instead, I do my best to honor and cherish fate, because to me, it is a "Divinely" blessed planned path. Chaotic negativity is the other option, so I definitely honor and cherish fate :) I don’t believe in coincidence; I believe in fate, because everything unfolds with meaning, as is deeply understood in Japanese culture. I believe fate is a testament to the interconnectedness of all things. I believe it is no coincidence that my birth month and day, 3.24, align with the beginning of Japan’s Edo Period in 1603 and I cherish this fact because my belief is that birth dates are fated to people. The Edo Era is renowned for its flourishing arts and culture. Songwriting is a form of art and is also connected to all cultures in an interconnected way. The historic name for Japan's capital during the Tokugawa period is now known as Tokyo. The Imperial Palace East Gardens is the former site of Edo Castle. The area has been preserved by the Japanese government as a national treasure.

My song "DRIVE ©2023" was my breakthrough song as a songwriter. "Drive" which has an East Asian theme was the first song that came from my whole heart. I really dug deep and exposed my whole heart in this song because I have a love for, and I am in awe of the various beautiful cultures of East, and Southeast Asia. Drive Is An East Asian Themed Musical Work To Spotlight East Asian Culture Worldwide #BridgingTheGap TO HEAR DRIVE CLICK LINK HERE -----> DRIVE

I love J-Pop, Anime, Manga, K-Dramas, K-Pop, and C-Pop, as well as most of the movies and series that come out of Japan, Philippines, Indonesia, Korea, China, Thailand, etc.

GODZILLA MINUS ONE 2024

At the top of my list for favorite movies is (巨大怪獣の王、ゴジラ) Godzilla Minus One (2024) 💜. This movie deserves a 10 out of 10 because it was emotionally beautiful, intellectually mindful, and just brilliantly made. I love the part at the end when she asked him if his war was over, that was so beautiful :)

"Godzilla is the symbol and reminder of the horrors and evils of the atomic bomb, and the way the monster moves in Godzilla Minus One is horrific and scary to me, and really gets under my skin because of all the Godzilla films I have seen, this one to me, captures the physical pain and the physical suffering of those who suffered in Japan after the atomic bombs were dropped on Hiroshima and Nagasaki. They say the Godzilla monster was designed to show how Japanese people's skin was after the atomic bombs were dropped, and the pure hell and suffering the Japanese endured. I don't know if the way the monster moves in this film is made with the intent to symbolize that pain and suffering, but whether it was done with this intention or not, I can state that it has a very visceral effect on me." - By Sonya B., Songwriter Eclectic™ - this post was updated 11/14/2025.

Here is a short list of some of my other favorite movies and series: Alice in Borderland (2020), The Snake Girl and the Silver-Haired Witch (1968), Bleach (2018), Occult (オカルト) 2009, Don't Look Up - Joyû-rei (1996), Sonic The Hedgehog - Films (2020 -), Bungo Stray Dogs (2016), Bungo Stray Dogs WAN! (2021), Pokemon Series My Fav Years Are (1997-2003), 怪奇物件探偵X (2020), Durarara!! (2010), Hetalia (2009), My Hero Academia (2016), Higurashi When They Cry (2006), Ju-On:The Curse (2000), Ju-On (2002), Ring TV Movie (1995), Ringu (1998), Rurouni Kenshin: The Beginning (2021), Golden Kamuy (2024), Kaiju late 60's - All Monsters Attack 1969 & Attack of the Monsters (1969), Indigo (2023), May the Devil Take You (2018), Death Whisperer (2023), Sewu Dino (2023), The Wailing (2016), The Guest (2018), Prison Playbook (2017), Japan Sinks: People of Hope (2021), Blue Exorcist (2011), Nocebo (2022) Death Note-Anime Series (2006), Death Note (2006), Death Note: The Last Name (2006), Death Note L: Change the World (2008), (Favorite Live Action Version) - Death Note (2015), Demon Slayer (2019-), Shinizokonai no Ao 死にぞこないの青 (2008), The Man From Nowhere (2010), Zom 100: Bucket List of the Dead (2023), 13 Real Asian Horror Stories (2011), The 8th Night (2021), Vincenzo (2021), Ballerina (2023), Alchemy of Souls (2022), Monster (2014), The Cursed (2020), Bad Guys: Vile City (2017), My Name (2021), Pandora (2016), Arthdal Chronicles (2019), The Entitled (2022), Hunger (2023), Kwaidan (1964), China in the Classics – The Art of War - CGTN (2021), Phobia 2 (2009), Start-Up (2019), Midnight (2021), The Priests (2015), The Witch: Part 1 - The Subversion (2018), Master of the House (2024), The Devil Punisher (2020), The Ghost Bride (2020), Black & White (2009), Metamorphosis (2019), Exhuma (2024), Ninja Assassin (2009), Uninvited (2025), Sadako DX (2005), Tales of Terror: The Haunted Apartment (2005). I also love the (2023) film Quiz Lady, it was a very sweet, sincere, and hilarious movie. The scene when she got their little dog back from the gangsters was soooo funny, as well as the scene when she was tripping at the game show audition :) I love classic Martial Arts films. My favorites of them are Bruce Lee's The Way of the Dragon (1972), the first movie Bruce Lee directed, produced, and starred in, also Five Deadly Venoms, Return of the Five Deadly Venoms (1978), 36th Chamber of Shaolin ( 1978), and the Dance of the Drunken Mantis (1979).

Favorite Director: Takashi Miike. Films on my fav list are Audition (1999), Gozu (2003)... so mind-bending, As the Gods Will (2014), One Missed Call (2003).

ACTOR (EAST ASIAN)

Japanese Actor Model Kento Yamazaki

I really like the way he carries the story lines in his films and series; this is why he is one of my top favorite actors.

Golden Kamuy, Alice in Borderland, Death Note (Live Action)

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MUSIC ARTIST (EAST ASIAN)

Japanese Singer-Songwriter, Pianist Fujii Kaze

I love his smooth voice, his style, and his thoughtful lyrics... his beautiful, authentic vibe :)

My Narrative of the Japanese True Story of the Akita Hachikō

"Every single morning, loyal dog Hachikō would walk with his master, Professor Hidesaburō Ueno, to Shibuya Station. Each evening, Hachikō would faithfully return to the same spot, waiting with a pure heart full of love for the professor to come home. Even after Ueno-sensei passed away suddenly in 1925, Hachikō never stopped waiting for him. Every day, for nearly ten years, Hachikō continued to go to wait at the station, hoping to see his master again. Hachikō's gentle, loving devotion touched the hearts of countless people, and Hachikō soon became a beautiful symbol of love and loyalty throughout Japan and the world. Today, a statue stands at Shibuya Station in Hachikō's honor, so that his story of unshakeable faithfulness and love lives on forever. When Hachikō passed away in 1935, his ashes were laid to rest beside his beloved master, symbolizing that they were finally together once again. Hachikō, the music video, shows the beauty of unwavering loyalty and love through artist Fujii Kaze's vision :) " Written By Sonya B., Songwriter Eclectic ™ - 9/21/2025

A beautiful glimpse of a fragment in time - Prof. Ueno and Hachikō the Loyal Dog.mp4

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MUSIC ARTIST (EAST ASIAN)

Chinese Rapper Singer Jackson Wang

Jackson Wang is one of my favorite artists. I like his songs because he doesn't hold back his feelings in his music. I also like the way he presents the videos for the songs he writes. They are very unique. Examples (Cruel, Champagne Cool, Blue, Come Alive, and collabs Walking - with Joji, and Magnetic - Rain f/ Wang).

One of my new favorites is Wang's "Hate to Love," which premiered on YouTube on 6/5/2025 (see music video below).

The song is about how some people have underhanded motives in relationships. They’re not really in it for love, but for what they can get.

THE FOLLOWING ARE MY COMPREHENSIVE REFLECTIONS ON THIS SUBJECT MATTER

PUBLISH DATE: JUNE 22, 2025

People like this crave material benefits, control, validation, or just narcissistic attention. These motives show up in destructive behaviors like manipulation, *gaslighting, excessive criticism, not taking responsibility for their negative and harmful actions, and emotional unavailability. It creates a cruel dynamic that is transactional or exploitative rather than loving and supportive. Those who abuse someone else's trust in any kind of relationship can fall under these categories, whether it be romantic or platonic.

(***Gaslighting) is a form of psychological manipulation in which someone subtly tries to make another person doubt their sanity, perception of reality, or memories. It’s a tactic often used in an abusive way to gain control and power over a situation. As a result, the party being gaslit may begin to question their own judgment, memory, and even their sanity. Thankfully, with today’s technology, it’s possible to keep a record of conversations—whether through text messages, emails, or other digital means. Having physical evidence of these exchanges can help protect the true version of events, preserve memory, and remove doubt about what was said or done. It also helps preserve the reputation of the party being gaslit, providing tangible proof if the gaslighter ever attempts to spread rumors or damage their reputation—be it through social media or within social circles. The problem lies with the gaslighter, not the person being gaslit. Never blame yourself for these kinds of actions. When they push you away, stay away, and never interact with them again. You cannot fix them; they have to fix themselves. From that point on, avoid them like your life depends on it, and never feed their ego. Know your worth :)

If someone reminds you that they were nice to you, especially in the context of criticizing you, that is not a sign of humility, that is a sign of narcissistic behavior. While appearing confident, narcissists often have fragile self-esteem. They may use reminders of past kindness to boost their own ego and feel superior by diminishing you. Narcissists tend to avoid taking responsibility for their actions and may deflect blame onto others. Reminding someone of a past kindness while criticizing them can serve to shift the focus away from their own negative behavior and onto the recipient's perceived shortcomings.

It’s sad that people can be like this. Honestly, it’s quite disturbing and literally toxic behavior because it shows a lack of empathy for how it affects another person's feelings and mental health.

Once trust is gone, it’s gone. Trust is the core foundation of all relationships, whether personal, professional, or even among casual acquaintances. When trust is broken, it’s impossible to fully restore. Even if forgiveness is offered, the memory of betrayal often lingers and doubts resurface. The relationship may continue, but it is forever changed, because the innocence and security that once existed are impossible to recapture. Trust is the foundation; once it crumbles, everything built upon it disappears like light at the flick of a switch.

A person with good, healthy self-esteem and genuine self-respect—qualities not to be mistaken for arrogance or an egotistical mindset—will not tolerate betrayal of trust. For them, the decision to distance themselves from someone who has broken their trust can happen at the flick of a switch. Such individuals understand their worth and know that trust is non-negotiable in any relationship. Rather than clinging to what has been damaged, they choose to protect their own well-being and seek connections where respect, integrity, and honesty are mutual.

That is why, when I choose to trust someone, I have a sound reason to do so. It is earned by the high standards I set for trust; my trust is never given on a whim. For me to tell someone I trust them, it is because I see "something" in their core being, essence, soul that has earned my trust. It is not based on anything else but that. I can usually spot someone’s true character from a mile away, and I trust my instincts when it comes to people. I’d say my assessments are correct about 99% of the time, but I do leave a 1% margin for error. I can say that the error is on my part because I have made a mistake in the recent past by ignoring the vibe I got from someone and letting their appearance of being nice cloud my judgment. But I have learned not to do that anymore, no matter how nice the person seems to be, because people do put on their best face when initially meeting someone. So, from now on I will stick to my instincts. Still, more often than not, I can see people for who they really are. When I do turn out to be wrong about someone, I find out eventually, because people, in time, will always show you who they really are after they get bored of displaying the facade. I still trust my instincts; I just have to be firm and not ignore them.

I have always been too softhearted, but I can’t change that about me because that is just who I am. I will just have to be much more careful about who I trust. Even the most in-tune instincts can make mistakes at times, no matter how diligently we assess someone’s character. With that, I am just grateful that the negative actions of others can never change who I am. I learned a long time ago never to let people or their negative actions change who I am at my core being. :)

It's best just to walk away permanently from negative people and let their negative intent, and those behaviors associated with them deal with them, or as the Japanese saying goes 悪因悪果 Akuin' akka (reap sow).

Forgiveness can be given if it is sought, but in no way does anyone have to entertain allowing that person back into their life. Trust is gone, and there is no viable relationship to nurture. You can forgive if they seek it, but you are not obligated to interact with them in any way. Forgiveness should not be an open invitation to allow their toxic behavior back into your life. A leopard never changes its spots; people are who they are, and people rarely change. What people witness is the person becoming who they are from birth, as they grow into adults and begin to self-mold who they will eventually become. People have the belief that someone is turning good or bad; no, the fact is that person is growing into who they are as they get settled into adulthood. Life experiences do not change character; all it does is clarify who the person really is and what is already there inside the person. No matter how people were raised, no matter what they have been through in life, and even if there is insight into their behavior, there are no excuses that can be used for the choices they make about who they become. That is all on them. A person's personality is very rarely ever changeable, so when people think someone is changing or has changed, that is not the case, it is just their core traits being exposed out in the open.

Trust is number one. Breaking trust is 🔥burning bridges with me; there is no way I would ever allow that person back in my life. The way I see things, if you really wanted trust, you would not do anything harmful to break something as fragile as trust.

Once someone becomes an adult, all decisions, whether good or bad, are their own. How they treat others is their choice alone; no one else can take the blame or be blamed for their personal choices. Give empathy to those who truly seek it, not to those who manipulate and gaslight to control you. I know this may sound harsh to some, but it is necessary in order to protect yourself from toxic people. Sometimes things must be said that are not always politically correct, because it’s the truth. How can someone love being poisoned? Interacting with a toxic person is just that: poisoning your soul, your very being. Second chances are for those who don’t go out of their way to harm people, not for those who have malicious intent to harm someone, someone they see as a game, like their cat to your mouse, or a mouse in a maze where they set the rules and traps. Forgive the forgivable, not the narcissist.

About Love...

Love should be unconditional. Unconditional love does not harm either party in a relationship because it is nurturing, caring, does not erode trust, and is uplifting, and safe.

Why I Prefer and Will Choose a Japanese Partner...

While I find beauty in people of various ethnicities, including my own, my personal preferences regarding relationships is something I have a firm stance on.

I believe a Japanese partner will be truly compatible with what I value in a relationship. I have a deep appreciation for Japanese culture and language, which fits well with my personality and values. I will embrace Japanese culture, language, and family traditions with genuine respect. I believe that we will have true... love, harmony, and happiness together because I will honor him, and I know he will honor me, because honor and integrity are ingrained in Japanese cultural values. He will have that sense of morals and commitment, I would not marry a man without these necessary character traits.

Japanese culture has a way about it that is gentle yet firm and precise; the culture teaches meticulous attention to detail, and to be respectful and polite. This is not a surface-level appreciation or generalization but an honest assessment of traits that I find compatible with the majority of my values and ways. The Japanese man who ends up being my partner will actively respect and embody his cultural values and will have these traits I am seeking. I’ll also be happy to learn about his hobbies and discover all the little quirks that make him who he is. ☺️

Trust is one of the main reasons I have remained a strict celibate since January 2014. I will continue to do so until the right guy comes into my life and proves he has good intentions for me and is trustworthy, so that together we can create a relationship that is a safe space for us both: caring, supportive, and built on integrity. I have never been married, and the right guy will be the one I trust enough to spend the rest of my life with, I believe a Japanese man will meet these values and intentions. ❤️😊

I will also have children with him in the not-so-distant future, who will be fully immersed in Japanese language, culture, and ways due to my loss of culture and language as a Native American Indian. My Native language has been classified as a dead language and declared extinct. I want my future children to have a strong culture and language to pass on to future generations, and the Japanese culture has remained intact even with the West and its attempted assimilation and suppression of culture and language, and the destruction of their lands by the u.s.

Reclaiming Japanese American Culture and Language after Decades of Erasure

I will never forget that day By Kiyomi Kohno "I will never forget that day 67 years ago when Hiroshima was completely destroyed by a single atomic bomb. This was the first ever atomic bomb used on humankind. The day after the atomic bombing, on August 7th, 1945, I entered Hiroshima city. I have never been able to forget the horrible experiences of that fateful day." - Kiyomi Kohno

(Also, to learn even more about my thoughts on relationships scroll further down towards the bottom of this page).

Conclusion...

People often say “I love you” in relationships these days just because it's the popular thing to do. Love, in the context of saying it to a person, should never be used lightly. Unfortunately, in today's society, it's thrown around with no real meaning. It's just a word without substance, and many relationships today are transactional. Many include narcissistic supply rather than genuine connection, love, or honor. That is not love. That is just people choosing to use the word "love" superficially for some kind of self-gain, and it has no genuine emotional weight, it's no different than someone casually saying they love a car, a coat, or pizza. There is no real love without trust, respect, and honor.

Today’s culture, especially with the influence of social media, can sometimes encourage quick, surface-level connections. Someone saying “I love you” is often used casually, sometimes to fit in, other times to avoid awkwardness. Some people use it as a love bombing method and manipulate their partner with guilt by claiming neglect and lack of attention. Such individuals don’t believe in personal space and try to isolate their partner from family and friends. They also attempt to make themselves more important than their significant other’s schedule and commitments. Some act as extreme exhibitionists, trying to prove how much others on social media superficially love them. They also use the word “love” to accelerate physical intimacy. This behavior dilutes the true meaning of love and makes it harder for people to recognize an authentic connection when they come across one.

Jackson Wang realizes he needs to stop looking for love from others and must first learn how to love himself. That’s a lesson many should try to take advice from. Hopefully, Jackson Wang will learn to love himself enough so that he will not just be the giver in a relationship, but will also find someone who gives back to him. I hope he finds her. He seems to be a sweet person, and he is an Aries like me. Aries have that giving spirit, but we need to be careful not to let people take advantage of that :)

"When you first meet someone, they often put on their best display. But if that isn’t who they truly are, they won’t be able to keep up the act for long, because time reveals all. Time will either give you the right person or remove the wrong one. In the end, time tells all, it will show whether someone’s intentions are genuine, or if they’re simply wearing a mask to hide their insidious facade." - By Sonya B., Songwriter Eclectic © 2025

MORE ABOUT MY PERSONAL TAKE ON RELATIONSHIPS ARE UNDER THE HEADING - ABOUT MY SONG "DRIVE ☯" AN "EAST ASIAN" THEMED SONG AND WHY I WAS INSPIRED TO WRITE IT. (SCROLL FURTHER DOWN THIS PAGE )

I ALWAYS FOUND PEOPLE OF EAST AND SOUTHEAST ASIAN DESCENT TO BE BEAUTIFUL, SWEET, HELPFUL, AND GIVING.

When the pandemic hit it broke my heart to see all the Anti-Asian hate which sadly is still occurring in America to this day, there is so much anti Asian violence and hate, it really gets to me and it hurts me deeply. I will never forget the Asian Grandma who fought back, I loved her fire, and that’s coming from an Aries.

So stand strong, and just know that I support you guys and pray for Asian communities safety everywhere🥰🤗. #StopAsianHate

Many Paths Make One Circle:

"It is well known that Western society promotes individualism and independence from the family unit, while East Asian and Native American societies promote family collectivism and respect for elders, which support stronger lifelong family interdependence and can be healthier mentally, emotionally, and spiritually in the long term. As long as personal space is part of this foundation, being securely connected to family and community, while still being able to have one's own voice, pursue one's own path, and have one's individuality respected, is the key to a more stable and happy life.

In Japanese society, many men and women maintain their close relationships with their parents into adulthood, and this kind of ongoing connection can be very healthy because it helps protect against isolation, loneliness, and the loss of meaningful bonds. Research on Japanese parent-adult child relationships shows that many adults maintain close ties with their parents, often living together or interacting frequently.

This multi-generational living arrangement is very common, especially among older adults, with about 70% of those age 70 and over living in multi-generational households. These ongoing connections support strong emotional bonds that protect against feelings of isolation, loneliness, and social disconnection, which can negatively impact mental health. Even Japanese adults living apart still maintain close emotional relationships with their parents, which continues to support their well-being.

These family ties, combined with mutual care and support, contribute in a positive way to mental and emotional health across generations, and like the willow tree, sacred in both Native American and Japanese culture, a truly close family connection is flexible and resilient, always offering shelter and comfort through all seasons. #ConnectionMatters" - Sonya B., Songwriter Eclectic™ 11/19/2025

This is a throw back picture of me when I lived in NYC. I think I still have a lot of NYC in my system.

I am a born and raised New Yorker, can't take the "Old School", "Classy" New York out of my blood. Growing up in and attending school in New York City during what I consider its "greatest days" helped shape me into who I am. #UrbanIndian

OUR CAT YUKI 😸♥️

I Also ❤️ These Anime Characters

I love the Japanese Persona video games by Atlus, and the anime Persona 3 movie parts 1-4, as well as Sega's Sonic the Hedgehog. Our favorite consoles are Playstation 1-4, we have all four, and we have the original Sega Genesis 16 Bit with Sonic The Hedgehog, and other game cartridges like Mortal Combat and Sonic and Knuckles. Even though I don't make time to play these games I still love these particular characters. My daughter has a huge collection of games for the various Playstation consoles we have. I think gaming and the graphics created for them are very kool, no one is ever too old to be a gamer 🎮 :)

(yt VIDEO) WHEN THE RAPPING MONK IS KILLIN" IT... LITERALLY 😆 @Metaphor(Atlus)

Respect 👏Chief Priest Keisuke Honryo - Myojoji Temple - Japan, The Rapping Monk

メタファー：リファンタジオ【ワールドツアー～Road to Metaphor～】東京 2024.9.25 ワールドメタファーサミット https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o4pUrgJSon0

BUNGO STRAY DOGS WAN DANCE IS SO FREAKIN CUTE.mp4

Bungo Stray Dogs Stage Play - Japan

Keisuke Ueda (left) and Hideya Tawada (right), portraying the characters Chuuya Nakahara and Osamu Dazai Bungo Stray Dogs Stage Play

Hello Kitty turned into a Baddie for Izaya 😏

My very own Cinnamoroll Plush 🩷

BURNICE AND ANBY DOING WHAT THEY DO BEST 😆🫰

Image Credit: SuperAppleMan🍎 x.com

BURNICE dance so cuuute - Zenless Zone Zero.mp4

BURNICE 🫶🔥

Video Credit: SuperAppleMan🍎 x.com

Credit: Alice @1619anime Youtube ☺️

SOME OF MY FAVORITE JAPANESE COMMERCIAL SPOTS :)

Cinnamoroll Cup Noodles Commercial - Japan.mp4

CINNAMOROLL CUP NOODLES COMMERCIAL IS SOOOOO CUTE 😍

START VIDEO AT 4:37 TO SEE MY FAVORITES

OTHER MUSIC, MOVIES, SHOWS, AS WELL AS HOBBIES ENJOYED BY ME.

I enjoy rock music as in the Rolling Stones, Led Zeppelin, Queen, The Police, Wham, George Michael, Eurythmics, Annie Lennox, Yes, Pink Floyd, The Who, Dire Straits, Phil Collins, Peter Gabriel, etc. Most of these bands, singers are British in origin. I think this European region put out the best rock bands in history.

I also like old school North American rock such as Steely Dan, The Eagles, Kenny Loggins, Michael McDonald, Stevie Nicks, Van Halen, Heart, Rush, Guns and Roses, Soundgarden, Audioslave, Alice in Chains, and Aerosmith, as well as recent artist like Lady Gaga, Billie Eilish, and Justin Bieber.

R&B/Pop - Michael Jackson's songs from these albums

Off The Wall - Don't Stop 'Til You Get Enough, Rock with You, Workin' Day and Night, Get on the Floor, Off the Wall

Thriller - Baby Be Mine, PYT Pretty Young Thing, Human Nature

Bad - Smooth Criminal

Collaborations - Say Say Say with Paul McCartney and State of Shock with Mick Jagger

Some of my other fav movies and shows are: Quick Change (1990), Deliver Us From Evil (2014), Halloween (1978), Halloween Ends (2022), Howl (2015), Hush (1998), M3gan (2022), Phantasm (1979), Texas Chainsaw Massacre (2022), The Amityville Horror (1979), The Atticus Institute (2015), Joker (2019), The Babadook (2014), The Conjuring (2013), The Conjuring 2 (2016), The Dark Knight (2008), Kill Bill Vol. 1&2 (2003, 2004), The Exorcist (1973/2000 Re-Release), The Exorcist III (1990), Columbo (1971-2003), Emergency! (1972-1978), Grounded for Life (2001-2005), The X-Files (Seasons 1-5, 1993-98), The Office (2005-2013), Seinfeld (1989-1998), Charlie Chaplin: The Kid (1921), Charlie Chaplin: Modern Times (1936), Veronica (2017), The Descent (2005), The Omen (1976), Damien: Omen II (1978), Meatballs (1979), Caddyshack (1980), Vault of Horror (1973), The Uncanny (1977), Dr. Terror's House of Horrors (1965), Smokey and the Bandit (1977), Keeping Up Appearances (1990-95), Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory (1971), The Gentlemen (2024), It Ends with Us (2024), Safe (2018), Paranoid (2016), Who is Erin Carter (2023), Requiem (2018), The Crucifixion (2017), The House of the Devil (2009), Flashdance (1983), Legend (1985), Ghostbusters (1984), Absolutely Fabulous (1992), Black Adam (2022), Batman v Superman: Dawn of Justice (2016), Fool Me Once (2024), Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring (2001) The Two Towers (2002) The Return of the King (2003), The Fall of the House of Usher (2023), The Borderlands (2013), John Wick (2014), John Wick: Ch. 2 (2017), John Wick: Ch. 3 (2019), John Wick: Ch. 4 (2023), Oddity (2024), House of Gucci (2021).

Favorite Director: William Friedkin, fav films are The Exorcist (1973/2000)... a story of redemption & faith, The French Connection (1971), Sorcerer (1977).

AS FAR AS BANDS...

Mick Jagger of the Stones is the coolest frontman I have ever seen, his stage presence is so electric ⚡︎ and legendary :)

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ART I ENJOY

I also love the art of Kintsugi and Ikebana.

Kintsugi because it shows that even broken things can become more beautiful and cherished. These vases and such are held together with gold.

Ikebana because it lets things lay as they are, just like they are in nature. The flowers are arranged as they would be in their natural environment; unlike the west that arranges flowers in a form that is not found in nature. The basics of Ikebana are harmony, balance, and minimalism.

I also love that these art styles are seen as simple but are really complex and very detailed when you think about the deeper meaning of them.

Kintsugi is a metaphor for life's ups and downs, and how they make people stronger even with scars obtained through living life.

Ikebana seems to mean don't disturb how things are created, let them be who, what, and how they are. -

ARTWORK: MADE BY ME

MOON AND STARS AT NIGHT OVER AN UNKNOWN MOUNTAINOUS VALLEY.

MY SEASHELL DRAWING FROM MY IMAGINATION, DRAWN BACK IN 2014.

I HAVE A VASE OF SEASHELLS AND ROCKS I COLLECTED IN 2014, I USED ONE TO MAKE MY SHELL ART :)

DOLLS, FIGURINES, AND BASS GUITAR :)

To the left is my photo of a cute Native American Indian Doll we have had since the mid-2010s, my bass guitar I had since 2017, and the recently purchased beautiful 1980's Traditional Japanese Ichimatsu Doll with a Red Silk Kimono that I had shipped from Chiba Prefecture Japan back in Sept. 2025. And lastly, a Great Horned Owl hand-painted Andrea by Sadek Figurine I purchased in Oct. 2025 that was made in Japan back in the 80's.

Pine Tree. Image Property of Songwriter Eclectic.

Unknown Mushroom. Image Property of Songwriter Eclectic.

Squash Plant. Image Property of Songwriter Eclectic.

Hummingbirds are native to the America's and cannot be found any where else in the world :) Pic: Calypte Costae or the common name Costa's Hummingbird. This species can, at times, be found in Minnesota.

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It can barely be seen... but I had a cute little fox run across my property in the early hours of the morning on June 16 2025, it looks like a red fox as show in the sample picture below. It's honestly the first time I ever saw one on the property very cool that my security camera caught it :)

Red fox crossing road - Credit Wikimedia

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Deer At Our Door. Image Property of Songwriter Eclectic.

Deer At Our Door. Video Property of Songwriter Eclectic.

My Summer 2024 Garden Images.

I really enjoy watching things grow, and this garden was so giving this year. It was soooo delicious 😋.

FOODS I ENJOY

I also love East and Southeast Asian foods. Some of my favorites are Unagi Nigiri (Japanese Eel Sushi), Shrimp and Beef Bento, Katsudon, various Udon dishes, various Fried Rice dishes, Jjajangmyeon (Korean black bean noodles), Steamed Pork Buns, Bulgogi, and Vietnamese Spring Rolls. I also love cooking some of these dishes at home for myself and my daughter. I also drink daily Matcha Green Tea with added Ginger.

I eat other types of foods as well but East Asian foods are my favorite :) Short list of other foods I enjoy. I like Pizza, Calzones, Fried Chicken (though fried chicken should technically be listed in Asian foods since its origins are in China and the Middle East😉), Gyros, and most Seafood, as well as medium rare Steak with good marbling, and Fried Egg on Toast with a side of just a Buttery Toast, and sometimes Black Tea with milk and sugar, I also drink coffee with milk instead of creamer, it just tastes better with whole milk be it hot or cold. I also love ice cream, my favorites are vanilla, strawberry, cherry, and butter pecan, yum 🍦 :)

5/11/2024 I have to keep these items stocked because I use them alot :)

A pic I took in 2023. We also love fried chicken, I cook it a lot.

Pork Fried Rice 3/29/24 I only use the Nagatanien brand seasoning for fried rice.

Udon

with

Dashi

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ABOUT MY SONG "DRIVE ☯" AN "EAST ASIAN" THEMED SONG AND WHY I WAS INSPIRED TO WRITE IT.

"DRIVE" click here ---> My Songs

"Drive" is a song about love and balance in a relationship where both people complement each other, Yin and Yang. I hope that "Drive" gives people the courage to open themselves up in their relationship and not be afraid of showing their whole self in a committed relationship. "Drive" helped me find the balance that will be needed for a future relationship, so that I will be the Yin to his Yang.

MY HEARTFELT ♥️PERSONAL THOUGHTS, AUTHENTIC ME WITH NO SUGAR-COATING, EXPRESSED IN NO PARTICULAR ORDER :) (7/2025)

A JAPANESE PARTNER FOR LIFE " THE ONE":

I will practice what I preached in "Drive", and will do the same once the right person for me comes along. Someone who brings out the very best in me, and I bring out the very best in him. We have to mutually get each other and each others quirks, all the things that make us tick. Someone who will never attempt to hold me back in my career choice, and 100% supports me in my music goals. I have come to the conclusion after living and learning that I am solely attracted to Japanese guys, this comes from being exposed to different cultures and people while growing up in New York City, and from living life in general. The only kind of guy I feel that I can 100% be myself with is a Japanese guy with feeling safe and comfortable enough to do so, its the cultural thing that would allow that because I feel the most comfortable with the calmness, self control, and self-regulation of Japanese culture. You have to be true to yourself and not worry about what other people think. It's your life, and no one is going to live it for you but you. So, why not find happiness in the choices you make while living it. Many people have lived with regret because they tried to please others instead of doing what was right for themselves.

As I stated at the beginning of my blog (Why I Prefer and Will Choose a Japanese Partner...) and reiterate here, while I do find beauty in people of various ethnicities, including my own, my personal preferences regarding relationships are something I have a firm stance on. After assessing what I want and need, I know a Japanese partner will be the right lifelong partner for me.

A certain mindset and approach to life is essential to be happy and healthy in life, and being true to yourself is one of them. A Japanese partner will fully align with the standards and values I hold to heart.

My preference for a Japanese man above others is not rooted in any kind of idealization; instead, it comes from years of personal observation and reflection. Over the decades, I have come to appreciate the values, goals, and lifestyles that many East Asian men hold, especially Japanese men. The emphasis on family, respect, and hard work resonates deeply with my own goals. I also find Japanese men's approach to relationships with strict loyalty and commitment is what I seek in someone I will share my life with. Japanese men are highly invested in their romantic relationships. Loyalty in romantic relationships is highly valued in Japanese culture. ☺️

This is not only about attraction; it reflects a deeper compatibility in how we view life and our priorities and I believe that these shared values will contribute significantly to a fulfilling relationship together. My attraction to Japanese men stems from the physical beauty. Additionally, I'm drawn to their strong cultural values, caring nature, emphasis on family, loyalty, a calm demeanor, and self-control. Also, self-regulation is very important to me. I've observed a remarkable determination in Japanese men when it comes to pursuing their goals in education and career choices. #HumbleTenaciousness🫰

MY TAKE ON BEING A MOTHER AGAIN... IN THE FUTURE:

I love the traditional practice of having multi-generational family in the same household and in Japan it's called (nisetai jutaku, or "two-generation houses, but it's usually three generations in these kinds of homes). This style of home is something I want implemented so that traditions and languages are not lost and forgotten by the next generation. I have a strong desire to make sure that my future child(ren) with the Japanese man I end up with know their language like the back of their hand, and that the child(ren)'s father, grandparents, and other family members help them master it as well as immersing them in their culture, that would make me very happy :) Being a Native American with a loss of culture and language; I would be grateful to see my future child(ren) having strong cultural values and language skills, that to me would be a blessing. It's something I look forward to and really hope and pray for :)

My dream and goal for us is to have a "nisetai jutaku" type home on expansive land in the states with fruit and nut trees, a garden area, and a small pond for Koi fish, as well as room for other uses and activities, hopefully located in Minnesota. Other qualities I love is the respect and care for elders, marriage that last a lifetime, and care of children teaching them real values including humility and giving, and the fact that traditional Japanese cultures and languages have not been influenced by the west, and remain intact as they were in the past. They hold on to things we as Natives in the Americas have lost forever due to the colonization of the Americas. I can recognize by ear the spoken Japanese language, as well as the written form. I am drawn to the Japanese language, and of all East Asian languages the sound is the easiest for me to recognize and remember, and I also like how the "kana" (I hope I’m using this term correctly) is written.

He will have my utmost love, honesty, loyalty, respect, trust, and commitment, and future child(ren) together as well. I take care of myself, I have never done drugs, never drunk alcoholic beverages, and I have never smoked. I try to stay as fit as I can by maintaining a healthy lifestyle and weight. I am a women's size (5 or small as of 7.19. 2025), at a height of about 5'5", and my physical health is important to me. Becoming a mother again someday is something I really look forward to, and a plus because it is said that children of mothers my age are smarter, taller, and healthier. Plus I have experience and will not come into motherhood without any skills. I feel that since I am older this would be an experience that would be even more wonderful because the older you are (well at least with me) the more patience you have, the more open you are, and you appreciate every little thing in life because you see life with maturer eyes and have no real hang-ups because you grow past that stage in life as you get older. I know everything won't be perfect with being a mother again but it will be worth it. I can also say with being a mother again I may learn a few new things too :)

My preference is that he will have to be younger than me but mentally and emotionally mature, not stale, just mature in these ways. I expect us to be able to enjoy life fully. This is my personal preference based on what I want and need. I still want to live a full colorful life and have no one tell me I can't enjoy all aspects of life because they have become cynical, static, and have lost the desire to live a life filled with richness and fullness because of longer life experiences.

A younger Japanese man would be open to supporting the things I want, and need in my life. My daughter was like mom I just can't see you with anyone your age or older, you don't look or act your age. I guess that is her way of saying I am lively...not immature, just full of life, lol. These are my values, my personal wants and needs, and are no secret, this is just who I am, and the right person will meet the majority, or possibly even all of them.

I am a strict practicing celibate and have been doing so since 01/2014. I don't feel ashamed or weird with my lifestyle choices because dating is very serious to me and I don't take it lightly, this is why I don't date just to date, and this is also why I don't like or involve myself in the toxic U.S. dating culture at all. I date only for commitment, and Japanese culture fits my ideal standard for dating since I take relationships very seriously. Japanese men are highly invested in their relationship with their partner, and courting is a respectful part of dating which is very common in Japanese culture. It is my choice to be celibate for the reasons stated above. Though it may not be right for everyone, it is right for me. I made this celibate vow to myself and to the Japanese man who will end up being my partner for life :)

Japanese men who hold on to their beautiful traditional culture and the values passed down through generations tend to be among the most sincere and sweetest men. Having not been in a relationship since 2014, I now see things more clearly. I am making wiser decisions about who I allow into my personal life; you can never be too careful. It’s much better to be cautious than to have regrets. Since life is about free will and making choices, these are mine, and what I believe is best for me.

So... don't be afraid to start up a conversation with me as long as it is an open, honest, and respectful conversation, that is. Just know that I have a 6th sense when it comes to people and can spot what they are about a mile away, I instantly feel peoples vibes. As I stated ealier in this blog... the only mistake I have made in the past is ignoring the vibe I get from someone, and letting their appearance of being nice cloud my judgment, but I have learned not to do that anymore no matter how nice the person seems to be because people do put on their best face when initially meeting someone. So from now on I will stick to my instincts. They are very accurate and I freak people out when I know things, I have been like this since I was little so I am used to it, and I am upfront about having this gift, or eyes as some call it. No one can really fool me. So just be upfront, open, honest, and sincere from the get go, honesty is not shameful or weak, it shows courage :)

When I say something I truly mean it, I am sincere even when others aren't at times. I don't lie to myself either because lying to one's self is self defeating, and I know I also have to answer to God. That is just my way of doing things in life. I can be confident in what I say about myself because I know what I have to offer in a relationship. I am no carbon copy of anyone; I love being me. I cherish the person that I am, and am grateful to God for creating me the way I am :)

I keep things real with myself, and I don't play games with other people's minds or feelings because I respect myself too much to do that. Plus, it's childish and shows a lack of maturity, both mentally and emotionally to be that way. The Japanese man I will end up with will be upfront with me at all times—no beating around the bush. My motto is if you have something to say...say it, and own it. I always try to be truthful because it's better to tell the truth.

I know everyone doesn't believe in God/Jesus, but I do, and I hold myself accountable, and I always keep it real. Being the fiery Aries that I am I keep harsh words to myself unless they are absolutely justified and warranted to be said. The tongue should always be guarded. Words have power, so it's best to use them wisely. There’s an old saying: your words come back to you. That’s why I always say what I mean, even if my words aren’t always fully valued or appreciated by everyone. Regardless, I can comfortably live with my words and who I am because I know I answer to a higher power, and no purpose of His can be thwarted. (Job42:2)

I am an Aries.

I am also under sign of Rooster, YIN element.

My blood type is O+

As Native American Indians, we share a unique trait when it comes to our blood type. Across our tribes, blood type O is very common, and the majority of us also have the Rh positive factor—making O+ especially dominant in our communities.

This isn’t just an interesting fact; it’s part of our ancient legacy. The presence of type O+ blood among us Native Americans is a living connection to our ancestors and our migration from Asia to the Americas. :) - Sonya B., Songwriter Eclectic ©2025

GETTING BACK TO WHAT I SEEK IN "THE JAPANESE MAN" WHO WILL BE MY PARTNER FOR LIFE: (7/2025)

I see my life is an adventure, and the right guy will gladly be on board for these adventures with me, because he will be the right guy :)

I am not against dating a Japanese American or a Japanese guy from a European country as long as he loves his Japanese culture and language and wants to see it passed down to future generations (as in our future child(ren) together), and has not been assimilated so much that he forgot where he comes from through his family lines. It doesn't matter what part of the world he lives whether in be Japan, or other countries as long as he honors who he is, and his Japanese heritage. As a Native American, I've witnessed firsthand how our cultures and languages have become fragmented and lost over time; including my own culture and language which is very fragmented and essentially lost in a way it cannot be fully regained. Therefore, I deeply respect Japanese individuals who cherish and uphold their language and culture. In American society, there's often pressure to assimilate and discard one's cultural identity to fit in. However, I believe in standing out rather than conforming. Maintaining and celebrating one's cultural heritage is a powerful way to preserve identity and diversity...why fit in, when you can stand out.

A Long Distance Relationship: (LDR) is very workable for me with the right person, as long as we are both single, legitimately verified; knowing that we are factually who we say we are, and make time to see each other in person a few times a year, or more depending on circumstances, and can take time out to video chat and text with each other while also maintaining a committed loyal relationship long distance, and eventually settling down in one place together (hopefully in Minnesota in the U.S. since there is no place safer, and more pristine than MN in the U.S.). Plus LDR allows for connection and trust at a deeper level, emotionally and mentally, giving the relationship time to develop in a meaningful way. This creates a bond that can become unbreakable as love grows over time in an honorable and real way. This is how a relationship should work, not the other way around. Love should come first, and then everything else will easily flow into place.

Miles between people has nothing to do with love but it can prove just how much love is really there between a couple. Those that had an LDR that didn't work out didn't have a love strong enough to maintain it so they gave up. In life sometimes people just have to do business or work in other lands and it can't be helped but I am mature minded enough to deal with a situation like that because all that matters is mutual love, respect, honesty, and loyalty.

Love Has No Borders: Love has no boundaries, love is a borderless, beautiful, transcendental emotion that surpasses geographical locations. I can love someone I am committed to no matter where they are in the world, they would know that they can depend on me to be there for them and be loyal to them no matter where they are whenever they have to travel to other parts of the world. Think about all the military or business men who have to travel and stay in places for months who have wives loyally married to them. It takes a certain kind of woman to be strong enough to be that wife, and a certain kind of man to honor that wife. Empires where built by men who had wives just like this. I will also say women who built Empires had husbands just like this also👑.

You should be able to trust each other no matter where you are until you can both settle down in the same place. (I am hoping here in the states, in Minnesota. It is beautiful here, can't see myself living anywhere else in the states). Trust is my number one rule. Nothing else can be built on without it. Imagine seeing someone nearly everyday, if not everyday, but you don't really trust them, you have doubts about what they are doing and their sincerity as well, you are stressed when they are not right around you, and you hold on to them because you are totally co-dependent on their presence in your life. That is not a relationship...that is fear, and it is so sad for anyone to be that way. No one should feel sad, doom, gloom, tired, lonely, hopeless, unloved, unappreciated, suffocated, confused, burdened, mistrusted, ignored, mistreated, manipulated, or depressed in a relationship. These are all clear signs of major relationship trouble, these are relationship red flags.

I am extra cautious about who I will allow in my life, I will not allow any of these negatives in my life, I am a person who loves kindness, truthfulness, sincerity, peace, and balance in a relationship and will not accept anything less because without these good traits its not a relationship worth having. No one is perfect but these traits do make a relationship worth having. Some may say I have high standards...well, I know what I have to offer so my standards won't be anything less :)

The convenience of having the person around you all the time is nothing real, it's a miserable, unhealthy, shell of a relationship. No trust or respect for personal space to me equals no real love. People have lives before they meet and should still be able to spend some time with family and friends without feeling like they are in the wrong for doing so. A shell of a relationship is soul crushing and I feel for people too afraid to move on from stuff like that, it will end badly and cause mental and emotional trauma. I won't allow anyone to entangle me in something so negative, harmful, and toxic. So what it comes down to for me personally is that I want and need a balanced and harmonious relationship without any drama. Just because I love K- Drama's that doesn't mean I want real drama in my life, and the Japanese man that I will have a committed and life long relationship with will want these same mentally and emotionally healthy things for the both of us❤️.

"DRIVE" IS AN EXAMPLE OF HOW A HEALTHY, HAPPY, LOVING, RELATIONSHIP SHOULD WORK.

I think that people today are kind of fearful of opening up themselves fully to another whom they are in a relationship with because they don’t want to be ridiculed, when two people love each other fear should not exist. Love is not fear, love is kindness, trust, and honor. I believe that these things are what sustain a relationship.

I embedded Yin and Yang into the lyric representing male and female by using the phrase below, and it worked perfectly :)

MascuYANG FeminYIN

"I'm not asking you to be weak, I may not always be strong

but let my mascu-YANG meet your femin-YIN, this is where we belong"

VISION AND GOALS WORTH MANIFESTING:

I personally want to bridge the gap between myself as a Native American and other people of Asian descent. In my heart Asia is my first motherland because technically Native Americans are Asian Diaspora from Asia, and factually my Indigenous people left Asia 10's of thousands of years ago to come to the Americas. Many of us of Native American Indian descent know that we come from Asia, and we know that our story begins in Asia.

I truly believe that everything is coming full circle.

My goal is to do my part in promoting highly underserved Asia Diaspora worldwide including Native Americans like me, giving us a chance and a voice in the music industry. A place where we won't be exploited, and where we can create without suppression, and not have others limiting our true talents. I plan to learn music production and music video directing skills along the way as well. This is my vision worth manifesting.

My long term music career goal is to do my part in strengthening our place as a network of Asia Diaspora talent. We, as a network, will support each other, and stand strong in the music industry. Click on --->>"THE BRAND".

Our change is coming. #Inevitable

Asia Diaspora therefore becomes a permanent strong voice in the worldwide music industry without limitations, or middlemen. The west and its music industry has suppressed great music from people of our ethnic backgrounds for so long, and that is on its way to coming to an end. We have strong determination and tenacity embedded in our DNA.

My Song "Peyote" Is An American Indian Musical Work To Spotlight Indigenous Culture In The Americas #BridgingTheGap

To hear Peyote click on this link -----> PEYOTE ❤️‍🔥

I want to spread my love of music and my love of Asia back to Asia and give people on the continent of Asia good, honest, authentic music coming from this side of the world. I want to bring back music that makes people's heart, soul, and mind feel good again. Positive music that gives hope.

I truly love Asian people everywhere, and I state this with my deepest sincerity 😊.

I hope that you as my audience will support my music efforts now, and in the future!

Sincerely yours,

Sonya B., a.k.a. Songwriter Eclectic™

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